LOVE THIS! but with WHISKEY!! Prior to the wedding, the bride & groom wrote a letter to each other. During the ceremony, they put the letters into a box containing 2 bottles of wine and symbolically hammered it shut. If their marriage ever endured serious hardships in the future, they promised to sit down together, drink the wine and read the letters that reminded them of how much they loved each other on their wedding day. What a beautiful idea.